Finding the Keys to Prostate Stimulation and Orgasm

For months I sought in vain for the one factor or "key" that distinguished my first efforts with the device, but to no avail. In my own case I was luckier than many, since I knew what was waiting for me out there. Yet that knowledge only seemed to set me into trying to force it to happen.

Ultimately I was successful once more when I started to conceptualize it all as a sensual journey, the final destination being this Super Orgasm from prostate stimulation. In the end I found that there were numerous factors that are necessary to encourage this kind of experience.

And in this way it all seems more like trying to find a "combination" to the prostate stimulation lock rather than any single key.

Beginner's Mindset for Prostate Stimulation

I really tried to clean the slate, and in effect open myself to different forms of sensation. Sensations that WOULD NOT INVOLVE ANY DIRECT PENILE STIMULATION WHATSOEVER.

I also removed from myself the burden of expectation that plagued me for many months of frustration.

Another element that became clear to me over time was that one cannot force this to happen, but rather encourages it.

So faced with that realization, I made the conscious decision to enjoy each of my sessions with the Aneros for what it was as opposed to what it wasn't.

After all, even absent this Super Prostate Orgasm, I was having a lot of fun just trying to find my way, and the consolation prize of a traditional penile orgasm rather than prostate stimulation with the Aneros (ejaculation with the Aneros inserted) was(is), well,... not a consolation prize at all, but an intense, fantastic, experience in its own right.

(ALL THAT I WRITE ABOUT HEREAFTER INVOLVES NO TOUCHING OF MY PENIS WHATSOEVER.)

First Key: Arousal to Warm up Prostate Orgasm

Very often I direct pull my cheeks apart and direct the shower stream at my anus. The water creates wonderful sensations, and sometimes I find myself almost grinding into it. If an enema is necessary I do this prior to going in the shower.

Next, I find that viewing some good erotica is a great way to get aroused while practicing some rhythmic breathing. This kind of exercise for me takes the form of breathing into and expanding my lower abdomen, with a gentle "quivering-wave" like motion, almost as if one is sobbing.

It?s important to stress that this is not about hyperventilation, but rather about getting me excited and in tune with sensations that are abdominal-rectal in origin. At some point I start to introduce gentle anal contractions as well, contracting and holding as I breathe in this way.

Soon after, I start to become aware of ?fullness" or swelling of my prostate, which I try to focus on mentally. As I become more aroused I start to pull on my nipples. When I am really in the mood, I am fully capable of having a very intense orgasm with the technique alone!

Go to Jack Johnson's website for more info. (I developed my own technique after experimenting with his methods which involves sound, mine does not)

After getting suitably aroused for prostate stimulation, I generally retire to my bed where I have prepared everything for my session with the Aneros ahead of time. Those items being: one or two towels (one covering the bed) a tube of KY and the Aneros, cleaned and ready to go.

It is essential that this preparation be done beforehand, because you do not want to cool down your arousal by having to do it once your session is underway. I then lubricate the Aneros liberally with KY jelly.

On some occasions I precede this by pre-lubricating my anus/rectum with a small amount (4 or 5 cc?s) of KY liquid. Depending on my state of arousal, the insertion of the Aneros itself can in some cases kick start the involuntary anal twitching that is the precursor of the Super Orgasm.

Second Key: Anal Contractions to Start Prostate Orgasm

While I?m experimenting with these contractions I normally engage some of the rhythmic breathing (as described above). The important thing is to take your time and remember if it doesn't happen for you in this session it will in another.

With regard to the instructions that the manufacturer has given, they are a good starting point, but don?t be concerned with following them to the letter. They are really just an outline, intended to help new Aneros users (newbie?s) and those unaccustomed to anal play.

They will undoubtedly get one going in the right direction, but ultimately your own success will be tied to your own personal self-discovery, so don?t be afraid to deviate from their instructions. Experiment, explore, have fun with it! Prostate stimulation is a journey.

Third Key: Enjoy Prostate Orgasm

But importantly, now is not the time for heavy/strong contractions, again you can't go back into the penile ejaculatory model for cues here, that is, more (contraction) is not necessarily not better.

Be observant, be patient, work in subtle and gentle ways and allow things to develop.

Fourth Key: Perineal Stimulation

What is your sweet spot? It?s my name for the perineal acupressure point, a dime-sized area located half way between your anus and scrotum.

Well the good news is that for most people the Aneros takes care of the vertical location for you. All you have to be concerned about is the horizontal orientation of the tab. Generally it is located in the center of you perineum.

More specifically, once you start to have the twitches you will hopefully have the makings of a good erection. The erection makes finding the 'sweet spot" easier. Move the tab and find the middle of your perineum. Move the position a little; sometimes it?s not exactly in the center.

When you do find this spot you will experience a tingling sensation that you feel SIMULTANEOUSLY inside your penis, through your perineum, your anus and prostate. Try to keep the tab in this position by gently using one or two finger to the side of it as a guide.

However, DO NOT PUT ANY PRESSURE ON IT WITH YOUR FINGERS! The reason why is that any pressure that is exerted on the tab must come from your prostate stimulation; the anal twitching and/or your anal contractions ONLY!

Fifth Key: Putting it all Together for the Super Orgasm

Knowing how to contract in order to keep the twitches coming, once more is where your own self-discovery is involved.

Remember, this is an individual experience, and to a certain extent we are all "wired" differently. However, in previous postings I've likened this stage to the principle of harmonic motion that is seen in a playground swing.

With a swing, when force is properly applied, only a small amount of force is necessary AT SPECIFIC TIMES to make the swing go higher and higher. The same can be said for the Aneros experience too, as this is final key that will unlock the cascading effect to the Super Orgasm that we all desire.

Things to Avoid during Prostate Stimulation

1) DONT TOUCH YOUR PENIS AT ANYTIME DURING THESE SESSIONS. IT WILL ONLY REDIRECT NEURAL IMPULSES AWAY FROM THE AREA THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO STIMULATE. (If you're finishing off afterwards or if you're discontinuing your session and want finish with a penile orgasm...go for it!

2) Don't use anything (alcohol, drugs) that will dull your senses, you will need to be focused and alert to what comes your way.

3) When practicing prostate stimulation AVOID VIBRATORS. Vibrators will simply bury the sensations that you're looking for. Again, you're dealing with specific focused neural impulses. Using a vibrator in search of this Super Orgasm is like using a chain saw to cut butter!

It obliterates everything! However, as means of magnifying a traditional penile orgasm (ejaculation) with the Aneros in place....go for it.

4) Allow yourself the time you need free of disturbance.

5) SCHEDULE SESSIONS WHEN YOU'RE RESTED AND READY FOR THE EXPERIENCE. It can really make a difference in your success with prostate stimulation!

6) Put a day or two between your prostate stimulation sessions, your body will use this time to recharge, and you will find the accumulated arousal that comes from this, put to good purpose in your next session.

GOOD LUCK

Courtesy of B. Mayfield from the Aneros.com forums http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=767forums.

Aneros Prostate Stimulator Review

Medically researched and designed by scientists, the Aneros is the only patented device of its kind, and has been reviewed and recommended in numerous adult publications worldwide.

Ergonomically shaped, and made of FDA approved materials, this hands-free plug massages the prostate (also known as the Male G-spot) and perineum with self-pivoting accuracy.

With the anal region having "one of the highest concentrations of nerve endings per square inch," in the body, this wonderful piece stimulates, circulates, and sets ablaze all the key components of an orgasm, leading to what some men call "Super O's.

"Perfect for the novice and expert, the device works by using the internal and external sphincter muscle contractions to control the movement.

As these contractions occur, the inserted end will rub its slightly angled head and contoured body against the prostate. At the same time, the curved abutment will apply pressure to the perineum for dual stimulation.

While the easy to use spiral handle makes this toy completely safe, that does not mean you should apply manual pressure. This plug is strictly automatic, and will work on its own simply by exercising the pelvic muscles.

Great for erotic delight and good health, the Aneros can be used for solo or couples play.